Identity.......!!!!

What makes an identity? This question is haunting me since ages, what is that you are identified as and does this identity changes? numerous such questions weaving web inside my mind. The more I try to resolve the more I am trapped in.

I am different for everyone.I am different when I am with my friends so is with colleagues and acquaintances and so different with my intimates. Every time "I" changes. Mostly everyone knows me by what I am with them. But, do they know my real identity? They think they know me, what exactly it means by knowing someone. Does it mean that we identify the person. What makes an identity? We are identified differently at different places and situations. If suppose I am out of my state I would be identified as an outsider suppose a Maharashtrian if I am out of my country I would be identified as an Indian. Then what is my real identity am I maharashtrain or Indian, both.

"I" becomes very prominent. It is said that you are identified by your deeds. But for me the question is what is identification. Even if someone is identified by their deeds don't we recollect some face when that deed is remembered. Then if the deed is the identification what are those faces for. I carry traces of my multiple identity and those traces are again creating an identity of itself. I am too confused with this identity. I feel that our identity changes from person to person. I can't be the same with my boss as I am with my colleagues, a loving husband a caring father a responsible son could be a hated boss then what would be his identity and how would that same person be identified. Who is real he? I think we all have this multiple personality syndrome but still we are identified as some particular individual, that identified individual could be the outcome of one his powerful personality which has an impact on his different personalities and identities.

I am still trying to find which of my multiple personality has identified me....!!!
I always feel that Other Side of Me is More Interesting....!!!